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Saturday 6 September, 2008
 05:14 | 6/Jul/2008 |  4 Comment(s)
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Communications - Addresses – Direction

It is said that women are generally bad at directions the technical reason being during Adam’s time men use to go out in the woods hunting for food and they knew the way back home whereas women use to stay at Home/Cave/Den/Shelter (depends what one has to define). Even now in 21st century as per the survey (by people who do market surveys) it is still the same, women do majority of car accidents due to technical reasons (not a proven reason).

 

Communication leads to addresses and addresses leads to directions. Most of my mode of communication is through my cell phone but what I noticed was people love gadgets but hate to make complete use of it but without a communication you cannot address anything whether it is some ones phone number, id, name, designation, destination, or a dream and addresses lead to directions. I met several gentlemen who did show me the addresses to keep my dream going but finally it has ended up in the directions of a meteoroid, which when falls only leaves a scar on the planet. Same way if dreams are shattered you end up keeping a safe distance from your hard earned sleep so that you don’t dream again. It is a bitter lesson of life but definitely doesn’t lead to the direction of closing the book of life.

 

When I had to communicate in a debate at one interview, I had learned in business communications that always answer negative so that you get more scope for a debate. The debate was on ‘whether you need to have a degree to be successful?’ and the scope for the debate was in ‘NO’ as Bill Gates, Ambani, TATA, Birla and lots other who are successful and have lead lot of people to top address which in turn have lead to good directions never had a profound degree to be successful when they started of with their dreams.   

 

Negativity to win an interview and that too for a topic like that is understandable. But what if the communication topic is ‘Do we need to cheat or lie to be successful?’ Or ‘Can we be successful being only truthful?’  If both the questions are addressed as ‘YES’ then what will be the direction? And if ‘NO’ then what will be the direction? I wonder what will I answer if tomorrow my daughter asks me such questions or for that matter anyone who asks me such questions.

 

Communicate for these questions to address them to an appropriate direction.

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